What He Wants – April

You’ve heard that relationships are work – and who out there really needs more work? The fact is, dating and relationships can be wonderful, fulfilling, stressful and confusing, all at the same time. And when guessing games and miscommunications get into the mix, the dating game can become totally overwhelming. And getting advice from your girlfriends–who don’t think like men – can take you completely down the wrong path!

So if you’ve ever been unsure and found yourself asking “what he really wants,” then join us here, in each issue for “What He Wants” and get fresh and sexy perspectives on relationships and dating—from a man’s point of view!

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The Whole Package

By Tripp

Let me introduce myself. I’m a man. I like beer, breasts, and burning calories. But I’m also a human with emotions, and I will never escape that. So while I enjoy the occasional superficial pleasure, I still need and desire a woman who has it all. Not just the “sexy” – but the whole package. And I can assure you I’m not alone.

So what defines the whole package? She’s a “sexy, savvy, socialite” to put it concisely. Let’s dig a little deeper.

You’re sexy. Is this because you have soft skin and a curvy figure? Well, yes. But that’s not all. You don’t ask me every five minutes how you look. You see yourself as beautiful and don’t need me or other people to validate you. I want you, not only because of how I look at you, but how you look at yourself. That’s sexy.

You’re savvy. You’re street smart. You get it. If you’re coming over to my house for dinner and get lost, that is weak, my lady. A savvy woman knows or will find her way. Yes, I am a man, so of course I want to be counted on for some things, like hanging a frame or changing a tire. When it comes to the small things, get with it. Show me you can do it. I’ll be turned on.

You’re a socialite. But are you? Really? Yes, you like to go out. Yes, you like to have a drink or two. Who doesn’t? But can you walk into a room sober, dressed modestly, and get everyone to like you? When we’re out at a party together, I don’t want you hanging on me. You should be running around, socializing, just like I am. But let’s share a glance every once in a while.

Now that I am done with my “what-I-want-in-a-woman” rant, I can summarize by saying that all this boils down to one thing: Confidence. Can you figure things out on your own? Do you make friends easily? Will the mirror stay in your purse for more than a minute? If you answered, “yes” to all those things, then in my book, you’re a sexy, savvy, socialite—Wiles Woman.

[learn_more caption="About The Expert" state="open"] Tripp is a dating coach in Southern California. His interests are human psychology, communication and writing. In his free time, he produces and co-hosts a podcast called “Dudes Talking About Chicks,” where he discusses everyday dating and relationship issues. He is passionate about helping others help themselves through motivation and creating realistic goals.

Website: dtac.fm Facebook: facebook.com/dudetalk[/learn_more]

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